{"id":12627,"date":"2024-11-26T19:20:55","date_gmt":"2024-11-26T18:20:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.themanchesterreview.co.uk\/?p=12627"},"modified":"2024-11-26T20:44:52","modified_gmt":"2024-11-26T19:44:52","slug":"death-robed-in-a-gown-so-beautiful-so-majestic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.themanchesterreview.co.uk\/?p=12627","title":{"rendered":"Death Robed in A Gown, So Beautiful, So Majestic"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.themanchesterreview.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Flower-12-e1732645120514.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"935\" \/><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12px;\">Image: \u00a9 Manchester Museum, The University of Manchester<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>For my Grandfather<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In the old elm that crowded our backyard fence<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 a lone magpie cawked\u2014 a woman was wading<\/p>\n<p>her feet through a water that had found its way<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 into her stead, &amp; she cursed heavily\u2014 is it God<\/p>\n<p>that allows these things, or some sort of partial loss<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 of hearing we are yet to identify among ourselves?<\/p>\n<p>There is a reason why I do not allow myself the easy<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 luxury of guilt; I want a daughter who will take<\/p>\n<p>care of me when I am old, not a son who would run<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 off to fight another man&#8217;s war. &amp; Like my father&#8217;s<\/p>\n<p>father, I don&#8217;t want to be the man who grieves as the<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 names of his dead roll out before him. I do not<\/p>\n<p>wish to try to evoke a face to go with the endless list<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 of names. I wish to be sturdy\u2014 a cherubic health.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to lose anything. The loneliness will outlast me.<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 The night before my grandfather died, I watched<\/p>\n<p>how languor crept upon his limb. Summer came &amp;<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 vanished the sound of the children&#8217;s laughter.<\/p>\n<p>In his dying bed, all he ever wanted to talk about was<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 prom dates in the 1900s. The girls, long-limbed<\/p>\n<p>in their long summer-dresses; how he wished he spoke<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 to one of them\u2014 any of them. He shook his head like<\/p>\n<p>it was coming out of a dream. The sun dipping beneath<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 the horizon. God&#8217;s thumb pressing heavily on his eyelid\u2014<\/p>\n<p>&amp; even in death the flesh is strong; it wants always to go on.<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 To give in is to let the pain recede into a darkness<\/p>\n<p>like a cautious animal. &amp; all I could do was watch the beauty.<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 The richness &amp; a sheen upon the leaves of the elm<\/p>\n<p>tree in the backyard. Death, so beautiful as it lies on the<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 soft brown earth, &amp; the grasses wavering over<\/p>\n<p>the head it has claimed. My grandfather, his fingers<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 loosening &amp; the sheets they had held moved slowly<\/p>\n<p>&amp; then swiftly across the still body &amp; I watched<br \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 them fall into the silence of the room.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>____<\/p>\n<p><em>Prosper C. \u00ccf\u00e9\u00e1ny\u00ed is a Nigerian poet. 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